A Relationship Does Not Die When A Person Dies
A deeply human guide for anyone experiencing loss.
This book rejects the rigid pressures of conventional grief psychology. Drawing on decades of experience, Lorraine offers a layered, relational approach that helps you continue your bond with your loved one—gently, naturally, and with profound emotional honesty.
"Lorraine offers a unique and important voice in this field. Her emphasis on creating storied connections to our deceased loved ones offers a necessary contrast to the conventional, outdated model of bereavement. Her words and her methodology will be a balm to many mourners, I am certain."
Hope Edelman, author of Motherless Daughters, Motherless Mothers, and The AfterGrief
Expert Foundation
Narrative Conversations
Professional Development
Specialized training for clinicians seeking an alternative to conventional grief counseling.
Living Rituals
How We Support Your Journey Through Grief
At Remembering Practices, we move away from the traditional medical model of “letting go” and “closure.” Instead, we provide the tools to foster a continued, vibrant connection with those who have died.
Personalized Support for Your Journey
Our one-to-one Remembering Conversations offer a sacred space to re-author your relationship with a loved one. Unlike traditional counseling that focuses on the pain of loss, these sessions invite the deceased’s stories, and memories close in your life as a source of strength, guidance, and enduring love.
Professional Growth and Clinical Excellence
For practitioners, Lorraine Hedtke offers inspirational training opportunities often filling gaps left graduate education to guide people in the helping professions to have meaningful conversations with dying and bereaved people. We provide the resources necessary to master the art of narrative grief work in a variety of formats.
One on One Conversations For Helping Professionals
Deepen your clinical skills through individual expert-led conversations.
Advanced Training
Master the theory & techniques of remembering practices through structured professional workshops.
Keynotes Presentations
Inspiring speeches for your organization’s conferences.
Wisdom in Print
Explore a vast library of intellectual and emotional resources. From foundational textbooks to poignant articles, our publications serve as a guide for both the grieving heart and the professional mind.
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Featured Books
Comprehensive guides on narrative therapy and the “remembering” process.
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Digital Publications
Instant access to the latest research and essays.
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Scholarly Articles
In-depth explorations of the psychology of continuing bonds.
Global Insights and Community Voices
Dr. Hedtke is a sought-after speaker who brings a fresh, revolutionary perspective to conferences and institutions worldwide. Additionally, we believe the best teachers are those who live these practices every day.
Speaking Engagements:
Book Lorraine for keynotes, seminars, or institutional trainings.
Share Your Stories
A community space dedicated to the rituals and stories that keep connections alive.
Connect With Us
Whether you are seeking personal consultation, professional supervision, or want to book Lorraine for a speaking event, we are here to support your transition into a narrative way of being.
