Lorraine Hedtke welcomes you to Remembering Practices
Lorraine's work represents a
departure from conventional ways in which death and grief are thought of.
Her teaching and writing embodies innovative theory in practical
applications about "re-membering conversations". This relational way of
thinking about grief affirms that our stories can potentially transcend our
physical limitations as living points of strength, resource and love.
"Remembering Practices sprang from a synthesis of my professional training as a family therapist, my professional focus with death, dying and bereavement, a strong allegiance to socially constructed and narrative practices, and my personal experiences with death."
New at Remembering Practices! - My Grandmother is always with me
New! - Memories in Stories Read the article written by Janet Zimmerman (of The Press-Enterprise) about My Grandmother is always with me by clicking here. For a video clip, click here.This book offers an example of a different |
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Re-membering Lives
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By Lorraine Hedtke and John Winslade
[Baywood Publications 2004] Grief is frequently thought of as an ordeal we must simply survive. This book offers a fresh approach to the negotiation of death and grief. It is founded in principles of constructive conversation that focus on "remembering" lives, in contrast to processes of forgetting or dismembering those who have died. Re-membering is about a comforting, life enhancing, and sustaining approach to death that does not dwell on the pain of loss and is much more than wistful reminiscing. It is about the deliberate construction of stories that continue to include the dead in the membership of our lives. The book specifically rejects common assumptions about the need to seek closure, complete unfinished business, work through stages, or say final goodbyes. Re-membering also rejects the idea that relationships end when biological life ends. Lorraine Hedtke and John Winslade offer this innovative approach by weaving inspiring stories with accessible practices that can be used by professionals and others to ease the transitions that death brings. The book demonstrates and illustrates the practical implications of recent and radically divergent thinking in the field of death and grief. It is a book that has the potential to startle and at the same time to bring fresh hope and comfort to many who walk in the valley of the shadow of death.
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